Sunday, April 28, 2013

The cure to being lonely

Its natural for humans to want to have someone in their life to love them and cherish them. Its something Allah (swt) imbedded within all humans. Ask anyone what it's like being single and they'll say "man.. Mr.Lonely is my theme song right about now." 

I think though what is a huge mistake, is when we let that feeling of loneliness consume us. It spreads all over our hearts, till we feel this huge void. That void affects our confidence, and this visible through different ways.

Take that girl for instance on Facebook or Instagram  who is constantly trying to gain compliments through her likes, and comments. She wants to feel loved.

Take that girl for instance who eats her loneliness away through food which is where the phrase "comfort food" is derived from.

Take that girl for instance who ends up telling herself that the reason she is alone is because she is indeed ugly.

All these examples I've mentioned can lead to a dangerous path. In the end its almost a desperateness. A cry for help. You can allow your pride to deny it all you want. Or you face the facts.

I for one have been there. All those examples I've mentioned? Yup. Been there. Done that.

There comes a point in time where you gotta ask yourself? My heart. Why does my heart feel like this? Will having another person help solve this void?

HELL NO.

Girl, you are barely grasping your own emotions. How are you going to add another person into your life? You don't use fire to take out a fire!! Another person has their own emotions, their own problems and you wanna bear all that?

Today I am going to tell you..yes YOU, how to solve that emptiness.

Its nothing magical. Nothing crazy. Heck it doesn't even require a lot of work if you have the right mindset.

Pray.

Your heart isn't crying out for another man. Your heart isn't crying out to feel loved. Your heart is crying out for its Creator. The longer you deny your heart that right, the lonelier you will feel.

You can't understand what love is until you know the One who created it in the first place. It just doesn't make sense.

Love can't be studied in a book. It can't be grasped by watching a documentary. It can't be held and observed like an tangible object. Its an emotion of the heart, and your trying to find it in places it wasn't meant to be found.

Allah made your heart. Allah made love. Allah made you. Allah loves you, more than your own mother, more than any being on this earth and beyond that.

Love Allah, consistently and you will never feel lonely again. I guarantee that.

Simple.

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